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Message
from the
President

Dear HKICC Friends,
Last Saturday I had an interesting
conversation with a new member of HKICC,
someone who actually lives in Europe but
loves coming to Hong Kong and is about to
set up a client base here also.
He shared two experiences that puzzled me
a bit.
First, he told me that he attended a few
networking events here in Hong Kong and -
following local practice - handed out his
name card, which states a title of "Business
Coach". On several occasions, after seeing
his title, people started acting as if they
were uncomfortable continuing in
conversation with him - almost like he had an
infectious disease that they had just
noticed.
Keep
reading
Charlie Lang
President, HKICC
president@coachinghk.org
| HKICC STRATEGY Project: Status Report |
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By Charlie Lang
In the August
Newsletter I informed you about the
strategy workshop conducted by Douglas Gerber
in early August 2007.
In the meantime, several workgroups have
started working on the identified strategic
options to make our vision of 1,000 members
by end of 2009 a reality. One of the keys to
that achievement will be a more segmented
membership with specific - and expanded -
membership benefits.
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| TOP 10 Tips for Giving Feedback |
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Article adapted by Carole Lewis for HKICC
from: http://www.thiagi.com/email-coach101-tips.html
1. Begin your feedback session by asking,
'What did you do today that makes you feel
positive and proud?' The coachee is likely
to be her or his worst critic.
2. Catch the coachee doing something
right.
3. Use the coachee's self-evaluation to
begin the process of setting goals for the
coaching process.
4. Offer praise if a coachee's
self-evaluation does not identify areas that
have improved, or strengths on which to
build.
5. Gently explore alternatives whenever a
coachee claims that his or her failure was
due to bad luck. Through appropriate
questions, help to show the coachee that the
failure was likely due to a lack of effort
or the choice of an ineffective strategy.
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| Being Purpose-Full: Working with Life Purpose |
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Highlights from Part 2 of this
extended article adaptation include examples
of how the use of life purpose work helped
two coaching clients, and a list of
additional resources on discovering one's
life purpose. The article appears here with
the kind permission of Dr. Patrick Williams,
Founder and CEO, Institute for Life Coach
Training http://www.lifecoachtraining.com/index.shtml
A favorite quote about the power of life
purpose comes from a well-known U.S.
president, Woodrow Wilson, who said:
"You are not here merely to make a living.
You are here in order to enable the world to
live more amply, with greater vision, with a
finer spirit of hope and achievement. You are
here to enrich the world, and you impoverish
yourself if you forget the errand."
Wilson's quote reinforces the value of life
purpose work: When our purpose, our power,
and our passion intersect, we find personal
fulfillment and enrich the world. As you work
with clients on life purpose, you'll find
that sometimes they confuse life purpose,
vision, and mission.
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| Coaching vs. Therapy: Similarities and Differences |
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Adapted by Carole Lewis from an article by
Peter Bluckert at http://www.pbcoaching.com/article-coaching-and-therapy.php
Given that coaching and mentoring1 are still in their early stages of development as
professions, it is hardly surprising that
there is a lack of clarity and agreement
around definitions, approaches, core
competencies and several key issues. One of
those issues is the difference between
coaching and therapy,2 and it is a
subject
often discussed by coaches in training and by
more experienced practitioners. It is one of
those thorny topics that defies simple,
reductionist thinking. Nor does it fit neatly
into 2 x 2 box system models or bullet point
lists.
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Lifestyle and Nutrition Coach; Certified
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What led you to
coaching?
You may say I was "led into" it by the
part of me that knows what I am here for. My
first 13 years of career life was spent in
the fashion industry, in which I enjoyed the
creativity but knew that was not what I would
do for the rest of my life. I had never
heard about coaching then. But I was already
interested in health and personal
development. Growing up I knew that people
liked talking to me because I could uplift
them. I actually set the intention to "come
back in my next life" relieving suffering by
educating and healing people.
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Dear Readers,
This month's newsletter is brimming with
information for coaches and non-coaches
alike. For starters, be sure not to miss
President Charlie Lang's status report on
the strategy meeting held last month. Many
HKICC EXCO member workgroups are making
inroads in several directions, including
membership. Beginning in January 2008, there
will be a variety of membership tiers to
choose from, with the existing and
soon-to-be expanded benefits of each category
now clearly defined. And start polishing
your CV, because the Coach Directory will
soon undergo a major revamp!
Also, we're offering tips on giving your
coachees feedback as well as helping them
find meaningful purpose in their work. Those
of you who aren't sure whether to hire a
coach or a therapist will want to check out
the article detailing exactly what separates
these two professionals.
Stay tuned!
Michelle Gabbe
Editor,
HKICC
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